He just flat out was not interested in any of it. Despite our best team effort, he wouldn't bend, he wouldn't listen to my seat. Knowing that that week was a lot for him and he had been so good the day before, my trainer and I gave him the benefit of a doubt and we got to a good place and finished.
Rainy day, spent indoors. |
So he got Saturday off entirely, I purposely didn't even go to the barn. Instead, I did this (which I usually do anyway):
None of those people are me, for the record. |
I can park in the garage again thanks to my awesome husband! Also, that's my horse laundry hamper in the background. |
And then Sunday was great! I focused a lot on shoulder in at the trot as well as my own position, but at the end, I combined two exercises and did the "halt from your seat on a diamond shape with your shopping bag elbows" exercise, and in between I asked for the slow walk in shoulder in.
Outdoor! Love it! |
A few of those had him really listening to my seat, and shifting his weight back, and suddenly I got "that feeling" of self-carriage and self-responsibility from him for the entire diamond. His back felt like a table instead of two sides that drop my hip bones alternately with each step, and my feet felt like they were on the ground, like I was standing still. I didn't do a thing except ask him for it, and he kept it.
It was a very cool feeling, and I quit shortly after that. Good pony!
He got to go naked for the afternoon as a reward. We are finally having some gorgeous weather here! |
I need to take your advice and just let go of my "meh" rides too. I think we're all just in a weird place right now!
ReplyDeleteYeah, sometimes you just have to let it go and try again the next day!
DeleteThat tail...
ReplyDeleteThe last one ended up being a bit of a tail glamour shot, I'll admit...
DeleteI've had a couple of those rides recently. I'm learning to just take a walking hack instead of try to push it on those days.
ReplyDeleteYeah. I definitely would have if it weren't raining and it wasn't a lesson. We will probably never have the chance for three lessons in a row again, and rarely even get three rides in a row, so I'm not too concerned about it.
DeleteSounds like you and Connor had something of an epiphany on Sunday- totally makes up for a less than great ride on Friday!
ReplyDeleteAn off day happens to the best of us! Totally worth it when it's followed up by an amazing ride.
ReplyDeleteI just had a ride like that - here's hoping a couple of days off will give me the same happy pony results you got :)
ReplyDeleteaww...glad you had a better ride the next time!
ReplyDeleteHe's so adorable. It is hard to go from a great lesson to blah.
ReplyDeleteHorse laundry hamper in the garage....HOLY GENIUS WHY HAVE I NEVER THOUGHT OF THIS BEFORE?!?!?????
ReplyDeleteI wish I had a garage though
DeleteI just want you to know that I laughed SO HARD when I read these two comments. They were perfect together. :) I hope someday you have a garage in which you can put a horse laundry hamper!
Deleteyay riding outdoors!!! definitely the perfect antidote to a ride where everything feels impossible...
ReplyDeletethat feeling of his back being like a table instead of dropping side to side with each step sounds really cool - hopefully we'll get there one day too haha
He's so adorable. It is hard to go from a great lesson to blah.
ReplyDeleteWoop sounds fab!
ReplyDeleteMust remember that table.image and see if i can work towards feeling something similar!