YES. YES I HAVE. THANK YOU FOR NOTICING.
I could have gotten off my horse and danced. Everything I talked about in my forward thinking post is working, and she said she noticed my softer, following hands too.
The actual lesson was jumping, and we're continuing with the general theme of challenging him to think ahead and be more autonomous. We are jumping jumps at diagonal angles, from all different directions, and doing lots of gymnastic lines.
It's like that time I audited the Jimmy Wofford clinic, and he was talking about challenging our young horses. He said something to the effect of, "Your eventer just needs to accept that people are crazy and are going to put crazy jumps in crazy places. Your eventer can't be approaching a fence asking 'Why would a human put a fence there??!?!?!??!!!!'"
| Jimmy Wofford, everyone. The man knows what he's talking about. |
Connor is doing really well with this concept. I feel like our jump training is entering a new stage (with the previous stages being: This is a Jump and Yes You Have to go Over it Every Time, Jumping Straight Up Into the Air is not Okay, and Sometimes I'm Going to Give You a Bad Ride Because I'm an Adult Ammie Please Save Us). Now we're into "We Can Do This, Now Let's Do it Better".
My trainer set up three verticals on the diagonal from H to F, like so:
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| Not to scale, and not exactly H-F, more like in the middle of space, but you know. |
But most of our courses started with jumping one of them parallel to the long side (diagonally over the fence), then continuing on the same rein to take the line, then turning immediately onto the other rein and making a tight turn back to finish jumping another one parallel to the long side, like this:
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| Green line is the start, grey line is the finish |
One time we finished by circling over the center fence parallel to the short side, like this:
It was really really hard, and we very nearly took out the standard of the other fence with my foot the first time we did it.
At the end, we spent time working on my lower leg, because now that Connor is more autonomous, I can think more about myself rather than getting him through the line (so excited to be here, by the way.) The big breakthrough happened at the trot, when she said, "You're fine on the up beat, but the downbeat..." I couldn't feel it til she said it, but as she was saying that I felt it, and I changed the way I posted so that the stirrup iron didn't change position. "YES!" she said, "I have to take a video of this for you, it just changed the whole way you went."
I am interested to see where that change takes us, especially in the new saddle.






